Will the AI accept Break Up With Lover?

Yes: it is accepted automatically.

Interaction · Hostile actions

Break Up With Lover

No costAccepted automatically

End your Lover Special Relation with the recipient

What you need

You

Has the target as lover

Break Up With Lover is a hostile character interaction in Crusader Kings III. Accepted automatically. Patch 1.20.1.2, from game/common/character_interactions/00_lover_interactions.txt.

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Will the AI accept Break Up With Lover?: Yes: it is accepted automatically.

Will they accept?

The other character has no choice: the game accepts it automatically.

What happens

Effects

You:
- If
  Has the target as soulmate
  Then
  remove_relation_soulmate = scope:recipient
  Else if
  Has the target as lover
  Then
  remove_relation_lover = scope:recipient
The character you target: Opinion: Broke Up
Stress and fulfillment impact: by trait: Lustful +20, Compassionate +20
If
- You: Government is Clan
- The character you target: Government is Clan
- Your house is the target’s
- If
  You are not the target
  Then
  You are not the target
Then
- Your house:
  add_unity_value = { … }
Else if
- No
- You: Government is Clan
- Your house: Has you as house head
- One of these
  All of these
  exists = scope:recipient.house
  Your house is not the target’s
  or
  The character you target: Is Lowborn
Then
- Your house:
  add_unity_value = { … }

Events it fires: lover.0202, lover.0201, lover.0203

• the game's own tooltip text · ◦ our reading of the script line · code the script where neither exists

Who can use it and sees it (is_available, is_shown) (3 lines of game script)

is_shown = scope:actor = {
	has_relation_lover = scope:recipient
}

As written in game/common/character_interactions/00_lover_interactions.txt.

Effects (on_send, on_accept, on_decline) (22 lines of game script)

on_accept = scope:actor = {
	send_interface_message = {
		type = event_sway_neutral
		title = break_up_with_lover_interaction_notification
		right_icon = scope:recipient
		lover_breakup_effect = {
			BREAKER = scope:actor
			LOVER = scope:recipient
		}
		stress_and_fulfillment_impact = {
			lustful = minor_stress_impact_gain
			compassionate = minor_stress_impact_gain
		}
	}
}
add_clan_unity_interaction_effect = {
	CHARACTER = scope:actor
	TARGET = scope:recipient
	VALUE = miniscule_unity_loss
	DESC = clan_unity_dramatic_breakup.desc
	REVERSE_NON_HOUSE_TARGET = no
}

As written in game/common/character_interactions/00_lover_interactions.txt.

Category: Hostile actions
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ID: break_up_with_lover_interaction

Source: game/common/character_interactions/00_lover_interactions.txt and the English localisation, Crusader Kings III 1.20.1.2. “You” is the character who sends it (scope:actor, or a puppet acting for you); “the character you target” is the recipient.