block_exposed_secret_general_notifications

block_exposed_secret_general_notifications = { #Because you're already getting your own, special event
	OR = {
		#Is one of the involved parties
		this = scope:secret_exposer
		this = scope:exposed_secret_character
		this = scope:exposed_secret_owner
		AND = {
			exists = scope:exposed_secret_target
			this = scope:exposed_secret_target
		}
		#For lover secret: No events for spouses or lovers, they get infidelity_confrontation.1000 instead
		trigger_if = {
			limit = { scope:secret = { secret_type = secret_lover } }
			OR = {
				is_spouse_of = scope:exposed_secret_owner
				has_relation_lover = scope:exposed_secret_owner
				is_spouse_of = scope:exposed_secret_target
				has_relation_lover = scope:exposed_secret_target
			}
		}
		#For bastard secrets: No events for child mother and real father
		trigger_else_if = {
			limit = {
				scope:secret = {
					OR = {
						secret_type = secret_disputed_heritage
						secret_type = secret_unmarried_illegitimate_child
					}
				}
			}
			OR = {
				scope:exposed_secret_target.mother = scope:show_me #mother
				scope:exposed_secret_target.real_father = scope:show_me #real father
			}
		}
		trigger_else = { } #Just to avoid errors
	}
}

As written in game/common/scripted_triggers/00_secret_triggers.txt.